Fewer babies, more screens: Why are modern adults avoiding parenthood?

Across wealthy nations, birth rates have dropped sharply in recent decades, puzzling experts. Former senator Ben Sasse points to a strange trend: people seem to be having less sex and fewer babies, even when life is easier than ever. He highlights that only certain religious groups—like Mormons and some Jewish communities—still have enough children to maintain their numbers. Meanwhile, many others act like parenting is more trouble than a game of Candy Crush.Sasse suggests that smartphones and constant digital distractions might be to blame. Instead of focusing on family or long-term goals, people chase quick dopamine hits online. He calls this a loss of what makes humans truly human—like betting on the future through raising children. Yet his own life took a dramatic turn when he faced a serious health crisis. After being diagnosed with advanced cancer, Sasse expected to live just months. But a new treatment and his personal beliefs gave him extra years. Now, he wonders if society’s rush to ignore family and faith has come at a cost. His message? Taking time for deeper things—like rest or tradition—might be the key to living well.