EDUCATION

How Childhood Shapes Where You Fit In As An Adult

Wed Aug 20 2025

Childhood Experiences Play a Big Role

Key Findings:

  • Positive Experiences:
  • Good relationship with parents, especially mothers
  • Good health as a child
  • Negative Experiences:
  • Abuse
  • Feeling left out
  • Money troubles
  • Moving to a new country
  • Parents getting divorced

Cultural and Contextual Differences

Country-Specific Insights:

  • Argentina: Strong relationship with mom predicts adult belonging
  • Japan: Weaker effect of mom's relationship
  • Turkey & South Africa: Childhood abuse has a big negative effect
  • United States & Nigeria: Smaller impact of childhood abuse
  • Spain, Philippines, Brazil: Regular religious services linked to more connection
  • Sweden & South Africa: Regular religious services linked to less connection

Conclusion

Feeling like you belong as an adult is shaped by many factors, and those factors can vary a lot depending on where you live. It's a reminder that everyone's experience is unique, and that the things that make us feel connected are complex and multifaceted.

questions

    Could the substantial negative effect of childhood abuse on adult belonging be exaggerated to push a particular narrative?
    If a good relationship with your mom is a strong predictor of belonging, does that mean we should all move back in with our parents?
    What are the potential confounding variables that were not accounted for in this study?

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