HEALTH

How Partners Can Back Up Trans and Nonbinary Loved Ones

Thu Oct 30 2025

Partners play a huge role in the lives of trans and nonbinary (TNB) people. They offer support and understanding that can make a big difference. But how can we measure this support? A recent study set out to create a tool to do just that.

The Study's Approach

The study started with a big question: What exactly does supportive behavior look like in romantic relationships?

To find out, researchers:

  • Talked to TNB young adults
  • Created a list of supportive actions
  • Tested the list with a larger group of TNB people

The goal was to identify different types of support. The study found five key areas:

  1. Helping with identity exploration
  2. Validating identity
  3. Celebrating identity
  4. Being an ally
  5. Understanding

These areas were used to create a scale called the Transgender/Nonbinary Identity Support from Partners Scale (TISPS).

Testing the TISPS

The TISPS was tested again with a different group of TNB young adults. This time, the focus was on how reliable and valid the scale was. The results showed that the TISPS is a solid tool. It can measure:

  • Overall support
  • The five subtypes

Why Does This Matter?

Understanding support in relationships can help improve mental health. The TISPS can be used in:

  • Therapy
  • Community work
  • Future research on how social support affects TNB mental health.

Limitations

However, it's important to note that this study focused on young adults. More research is needed to see if the findings apply to all TNB people.

questions

    If a partner celebrates their TNB significant other's identity by throwing them a party every time they change their pronouns, would that be considered 'Celebration' on the TISPS?
    Could the development of the TISPS be part of a larger agenda to normalize and promote TNB identities in society?
    How does the TISPS differentiate between supportive behaviors and potentially harmful or intrusive actions by partners?

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