Helping Parents Talk About Drugs with Teens

Parents can start small, saying “Hey, what’s new? ” to open conversation. They should keep the topic coming back over time. A first chat might be about medicine for a cold, then later about vaping or alcohol. Listening is key. When teens speak, parents should not lecture but ask questions. They can say “I hear you” instead of “You’re wrong. ” If a teen confesses to trying drugs, parents should stay calm. Use phrases like “I’m concerned” rather than shaming them.Facts help keep the talk realistic. Explain that teen brains finish developing around age 25. Mention legal limits: alcohol, marijuana, and nicotine are illegal under 21. Parents should show the behavior they want. If stress shows up, practice walking or talking instead of drinking. Set family rules together so teens feel part of the plan. A supportive environment makes teens more likely to share future worries. Parents should keep learning too, using trusted resources about drug risks.