Love on Her Terms: Ashley Graham's Unique Dating Approach

Ashley Graham, a well-known model and mother of three, shared her unique dating story with Justin Ervin, her now-husband. She chose to abstain from sex for a year before their engagement and marriage in 2010. This decision was challenging for her, especially since she wasn't new to intimate relationships. Graham explained that she felt she was giving away too much of herself in past relationships. She wanted to change that. She decided to hold onto her power and not rush into physical intimacy. When she told Ervin about her decision, he was surprisingly supportive. He agreed to wait until marriage, which made their relationship stronger. Graham advised others to make their partners work for intimacy. She believes in knowing someone deeply before taking that step. In past interviews, she has been open about her sex life. She said that abstaining from sex helped build trust and communication with Ervin. They still enjoyed other forms of affection, like kissing, but they focused more on their emotional connection. After marriage, Graham noticed a change. They became snippy when they didn't have sex, but when they did, their mood improved. She also mentioned that she wanted to be married and intimate because she chose to, not out of obligation. When the time came, they were both eager to be together.