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The Long Road to Leaving an Abusive Boss
USASat May 31 2025
The trial of Sean Combs, better known as Diddy, is in its third week. A former employee, who goes by the name "Mia, " has been a key witness. She has spoken about the tough time she had while working for Combs. She talked about physical and sexual abuse, long hours, and feeling trapped. She worked for him from 2009 until 2017. This might seem strange to some people. Why would someone stay in a job where they are treated so badly?
Mia explained that it's not always easy to leave an abusive situation. She was young and felt manipulated. She wanted to survive and make her boss happy. She also felt that she had built something important at work and didn't want to leave it behind. She loved her job, even though her boss was abusive. She said that she was in a cycle of violence. She would try to make her boss happy, but it never seemed to be enough. She also said that she had a hard time seeing the abuse for what it was. She would make excuses for her boss's behavior. She said that she was a people-pleaser and an empath. She wanted to make everyone happy, even if it meant hurting herself.
The defense tried to show that Mia's story didn't add up. They showed social media posts where Mia seemed happy and grateful to work for Combs. They asked her how she could say she was abused when she posted nice things about him. Mia said that social media isn't always real. She said that she was trying to show a good side of her life, even if it wasn't true. She also said that she was scared of her boss. She didn't want to make him mad. She said that she was tiptoeing around him, trying not to make him more angry.
Mia also talked about how hard it was to leave her job. She said that she tried to run away from the job multiple times. She said that she was scared that Combs would destroy her reputation if she left. She said that she felt trapped. She also said that she had a hard time keeping a job after she left Combs. She said that she had severe PTSD and was triggered by normal situations. She said that she was flooded with fear when someone at work asked her where she was. She said that she was scared of being in trouble.
The defense also tried to show that Mia was pressured by Combs' camp. They showed messages from Combs and his security guard asking Mia to call Combs. Mia said that she didn't want anything to do with him. She said that she was traumatized by him. She said that she understood the outreach to mean that Combs wanted to make sure she wasn't a threat. She said that she has severe PTSD and hasn't been able to work since her time working for Combs.
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questions
What kind of therapy does it take to unravel the trauma of working for a music mogul who posts 'sorry I was acting crazy last night'?
How reliable are Mia's memories of the events, given the psychological impact of trauma and the passage of time?
How does the defense's focus on Mia's social media posts challenge the credibility of her testimony, and what are the implications for understanding the dynamics of abuse?
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