FINANCE

Why Money Talks Make Us Squirm

USAWed Nov 05 2025

A Recent Survey Reveals Financial Discomfort

Money talks, but not everyone is comfortable with the conversation. A recent survey shows that many Americans would rather discuss politics, religion, or even their weight than their bank account balances.

Key Findings

  • 61% of U.S. adults feel uneasy talking about their finances with family or close friends.
  • Credit card debt and annual salaries also make people feel awkward.
  • Fewer people are uncomfortable discussing their political (24%) or religious (18%) views.
  • Even talking about love life (51%) seems easier than discussing bank accounts.

Historical Context

This hesitation around money isn't new. Previous surveys show:

  • Only 38% of adults feel comfortable talking about their bank account balances.
  • 52% are uncomfortable discussing credit card debt.

Generational Differences

Younger people are more open about money matters. They grew up in a different era where discussing finances is more accepted.

Example: Joseph Mallia

  • 26-year-old marketing professional
  • Enjoys talking about investing and saving with his family and peers.
  • Believes learning about money from others' experiences is valuable.

Gender Disparities

Women are less comfortable discussing money.

  • Historically, women have been less involved in financial matters, creating a stigma.
  • 45% of women say money negatively impacts their mental health.
  • 36% have never successfully negotiated a pay raise.

Expert Advice

To become more comfortable talking about money:

  • Engage in financial conversations regularly.
  • Join communities or groups that discuss money to build confidence.
  • Practice these conversations to become more comfortable and informed.

questions

    If we're more comfortable talking about our love lives than our bank accounts, should we start swapping financial advice instead of dating tips?
    How does the discomfort around money conversations impact financial decision-making among Americans?
    Is the discomfort around money conversations a psychological operation designed to keep people from uniting against financial oppression?

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