Housekeeping Dilemma: A Cultural Clash

A woman named Depressed About Disorder wrote to Eric about her 30-year marriage. She and her husband come from different cultural backgrounds, leading to different views on cleanliness. Her husband manages the household, but their home is often dusty and cluttered. She wants to hire a housekeeper, but he’s against it due to security concerns. Eric suggests she should have an equal say since she’s the one bringing in the money. He offers solutions like framing cleanliness as a marriage health issue or hiring a friend who cleans houses.In another letter, a person named Short Question asks if they should tell a friend that her short dresses might offend others. Eric advises against it, saying it’s her style and she should be accepted as she is. Lastly, a letter discusses the value of old yearbooks for historical research and suggests donating them to historical societies.