A Friend's Dilemma: Should I Advise a Divorce?

Having a friend who’s in a rocky marriage. You see that she’s unhappy and feel like she’d be better off divorced. But how do you tell her that? This was the dilemma facing Abby’s reader, who we’ll call Lily. Lily’s friend Lila has been trying to make her marriage work, but there’s still tension and negativity. Lila feels unappreciated and ignored. Should Lily step in and give her advice?Now, let’s switch gears to another story. A group that put in countless hours planning an event saw all their hard work destroyed by a few rowdy members. They felt disrespected and didn’t know how to handle it. Should they speak up or let it slide? Finally, there's a sister wondering what to get her terminally ill brother for Christmas. She doesn’t know if her usual gifts would be meaningful anymore. So, what’s the best way to find out what he wants?