Workplace bullying takes a heavy toll on nurses. It chips away at their mental health, their sense of professional identity, their relationships, and their feeling of psychological safety. When people who should stand with a nurse instead look away or stay silent, the grief that follows can feel invisible. This paper looks at how bullying, exclusion, professional undermining, and unfair complaints create real losses — in trust, reputation, career chances, safety, identity, and belonging. A nurse does not always experience grief from being bullied, but when the parts of their work that matter most get damaged and nobody acknowledges it, that grief can become dishidden. Most of this remains unspoken in nursing circles. Organisations sometimes make things worse by telling nurses to just 'boun